A Secret Play Date.
Every Tuesday.
As part of my plan to bring more making into my life and business, as well as more connection to the physical world, I'm spending an hour a week in a Secret Play Date.
A date with play.
You can, too, right here.
Here's how to do it:
Pick a project or a piece of a project.
Maybe it's something that's stalled. Maybe it's something that's been just a gleam in your eye until now.
Take one hour out of your Tuesday to work on it, but not in the traditional way.
We're going to mess around with tactile materials to shift ourselves and our projects. With no special supplies, just whatever's at hand.
If you have art or craft supplies, that's great. But you could also use highlighters, dry-erase markers, wite-out, aluminum foil, food coloring, ketchup ... you see where I'm going with this.
Remember when you were a kid?
It didn't really matter whether you had this or that toy because you used whatever was at hand.
Like that.
Why?
Because I know that switching gears from writing or crunching numbers or formatting a web page can help energize you, help spark new ideas or solutions.
Secret Play Date is a space you can just drop into for an hour, open all day Tuesday.
Part co-working space, part art studio, part secret hide-out.
You can make a Post-It mosaic.
You can make washes of color that describe how you feel about that business plan.
Work on your marketing plan. Your sales copy. Your next event. Your talk.
Why is it secret?
Well, you might work in an office. An office or studio where they would not quite get this. So maybe you sneak off for an hour to a coffee shop with a fistful of colored Sharpies and a glue stick.
At the same time, you're part of a secret society of people who like to inject a little fun into serious business, who like to do a little something with their hands besides tap a keyboard, and who like trying new things to get their creative juices flowing.
We're all doing it on the same day. We're all rooting for each other.
Then what?
In the comments, you can check in to let us know how you're doing, and give a yay for the people who are joining in.
You can use this as a format if you like, but you don't have to.
What I'm working on:
Editing a page on my site.
How I'm going to work on it today:
I've been making some random grid collages as part of my play dates, and I'm going to keep that up. Before I start to work, I'm going to review the page I want to edit, and then let my mind start working as I'm collaging.
How it's going:
I haven't started yet! I'm writing this post in advance. So check the comments for my progress report.
On Facebook, you can post to the smArts & Culture wall.
You don't have to share, though.
You could note it in your journal, or whisper it to the cat, and still feel the glow of being part of a group that does things a little differently for an hour every Tuesday.
Is there something you're working on that could use a little Play-Dating today?
P.S. The Society of the Secret Play Date is officially a thing!



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Secret Play Date!
And at first I was bummed because I have an all day thing, which I thought meant no play date.
But then I decided to make it an all day play date where I look for windows, and I use the windows to imaginate my proxy CWUs (could I possible be more cryptic?).
And I'm going to be in a corporate environment, so I'm also going to entertain myself with the fact that I'm on a play date that's seeeecret.
Briana, I'm so excited that you're having a stealth play date! I'd love to know how it goes -- I'm gathering ideas for people whose play-dating has to truly be secret because of their corporate environment.
Yay! First playdate and I'm all ready to go!
I'm working on my cooking e-book today. It's *almost* done, but I need to bring some creativity and play into this.
I'm going to layer cake it.
1. 10 minutes of play: sketches, coloring etc that may or may not end up being illustrations in the ebook (why not start with play?!)
2. 10 minutes of editing/tweaking the text
3. 10 minutes of movement/stretching/shavasana
4. 10 minutes of editing/tweaking
5. 10 minutes of play
6. 10 minutes of editing/tweaking
7. 10 minutes of movement
(And yes, I know and am excited about the rule-breaking 70 whole minutes of playdate - can't wait!)
Using the layer-cake method for your cooking e-book -- perfect!
Okay, I'll play. Missed you last week.
I am going to spend some time putting away and sorting out the explosion that happened in my studio over the month of December.
That will make me much happier about being there.
Not so much playful but creating the circumstances where play can happen.
Jenny! So glad you're here this week. I think that creating the space for play is a great idea, and you'll still be working with your hands, doing something physical. Let me know how it goes, if you have a chance.
I'm usually watching my nephew on Tuesday afternoons, which I thought was an obstacle to Playdating.
Silly Christine, kids are great at playdates! We can color and cut and paste, jump and run and dance, sing and giggle and just goof off.
Today I'll be working on finding the name for my new biz by making a collage. Also, there may be some coloring.
Whee!
How great that you're play-dating today with a guest expert! Sounds like the ideal set-up to me.
Beth back to report on the playdate....
So much goodness! My first thought when I reached the final 10 minute leg was astonishment that the time had passed! And wanting to do another cycle - which might happen after lunch.
Some other noticings:
1. I spent half of each of my movement breaks vigorously picking up my living room and the other half doing yoga/shavasana. The picking up/housecleaning bit held none of the should/must/judgment/resistance/resentment that it often does. Perhaps my lack of housecleaning could be seen as a symptom of stuck in other areas: business projects, creativity, movement? When I'm working through those things, perhaps the housecleaning stuck unsticks itself? We'll see.
2. The layering of each type of activity built momentum for my actual work. Rather than feeling drained and like I need a "check in with my social media websites" break, I was excited about jumping to the next activity. I was tempted to keep working on the ebook one time when the ten minutes just didn't feel like enough time, but I think it's good I switched to a movement break. Keep the momentum going!
I'm excited to see how my mind and body responded to this exercise. I'll be trying it again soon to see what else I notice.
Thanks Maryann!
Mmmm ... the house-cleaning-stuck connection is really interesting - such a great example of working on one stuck to effect another. And I'm so glad that doing it layer-cake style gave you momentum - hooray!
My Secret Play Date is ovah!
Before I started, I did a little Dance of Shiva.
Then, just as I'd wanted to, I worked on the revisions to a page on my site (in my head) as I worked with my hands on the sort of random grid collage that I've been play-dating with lately (here's today's).
As I played with little squares of color and text, I was happy to find ideas for the revisions popping into my head, as well as ideas for the newly announced Society of the Secret Play Date.
Every 15 or 20 minutes, I did some stretching and even some jumping jacks to wake myself up!
All in all, an excellent play date. I got ideas a-plenty, and I'm raring to go on those revisions.
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